She needs to see and hear that you cherish her and that you delight in her as a person
To Cherish is to see great value in a person that you want to protect and also to praise to others.
It is important for her to know that she is a vital part of your world and equally important that your delight goes beyond the things she can do for you.
SO – Grab a cup of coffee; find a quiet place for a time of reflection and prayer. Ask God to clarify for you the things that attracted you to your wife (character qualities / personality traits / etc.) and the evidences of God’s leading that brought you together.
Make a list of things that come to mind. Then set a aside a quiet time with her and share that list with her. She needs to hear your heart.
Guys! Let me know how this goes! – Bill Thompson